A Nigerian clergyman, George Izunwa, has explained to ladies why it’s wrong to introduce a man that hasn’t proposed to them to their parents.
Izunwa advised ladies that introducing boyfriends to their siblings and friends may block other people who are interested in them from approaching them.
He told his congregation;
”Stop taking somebody who has not proposed to you to your parents house. Stop introducing somebody who has not proposed to you to your sisters and brothers. Don’t assume relationship. Keep the person at arms length. Stop introducing the person to many of your friends. If somebody is dating you, let the person date you. If they ask, you say I am just going out with him. He is a date. Don’t make it serious.
One of the reasons you shouldn’t make it serious is because maybe somebody is ‘eyeing’ you. The person may think you are ocupied when you are not occupied. That you are dating somebody doesn’t mean you can’t take a date from another person. If he hasn’t proposed, you can move”