How I lost a relationship after jokingly telling my man I can’t cook – Lady narrates

A Twitter user @_Hotjollof says she lost a relationship with a man after she jokingly told him that she can’t cook and he took her words seriously and cut off all channels of communication until she proved him wrong.

She wrote:

I was in a talking stage with this guy sometime ago, everything was going fine until he asked if I can cook.

I jokingly said No and his mood automatically changed. He said he can’t date/marry a girl who can’t cook, I said okay but I’m willing to learn.

Next thing, uncle started giving me attitude, stopped calling, picking or returning calls/msgs.

When he finally did, I asked why the sudden change and he said he’s not just comfortable with the fact that at my big age, I can’t cook common food

I tried to explain but he didn’t give me the opportunity.

He said and I quote “There’s no need trying to explain anything to me, food is as important as sex to me in a relationship, I’m sorry it can’t work and pls don’t bother calling or texting me again”.

I was dumbfounded for minutes, I tried calling back to tell him I was joking but he wasn’t picking.

I felt really bad because I liked him.

I told my friend and she came up with a very good plan

After like a week, I called back with a strange number.

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