21-year-old lady seeks advice on how to satisfy her 36-year-old husband

A 21 year old married lady is seeking advice on how to please her husband when he makes subtle demands.

The newlywed whose marriage seems to be having a rocky start narrated that she does not know when her husband needs more than he asks for in terms of meals and other desirables in their marriage.

Her story below:

“PIs I need advice. I’m 21 and I just got married to a 36 yr old through recommendation and introduction from both families. I’m really new to this and I don’t know what to do as this is my first relationship which now happen to be marriage.


He has been good to me but I feel I don’t satisfy him and it’s not on purpose. He was in the office and I was home while we were just chatting and he was telling me how much he misses me and can’t wait to come home to meet me.


I asked him what he wants me to prepare for him when he comes, he said I shouldn’t just bother about that that I should just prepare myself for him, he will have me for dinner. So really I didn’t make anything. He came home and we made sweet love, after which he started asking me what I made for dinner.


This is not the first time I would misunderstand him in certain things. He said he thought I would just use my head and make anything to surprise him that how can he expend this kind of energy and I won’t give him something to eat. He is so him something to eat. He is so good to me I dont want to be making him angry all the time.


Does this mean that when he says one thing I should use my initiative and do another? I really don’t get, i just want peace. He left this morning carrying face for me because of last night because he took garri and sugar to bed.


I would have been cooking and storing up in the refrigerator but he eats only fresh foods according to him. I don’t want to cook and waste. PIs tell me how to handle such. Thank you.”

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